Home alone

I am all alone this weekend. The kids are with A and I am taking it easy at home. As sunday is a busy day for me, I decided to have a total rest today. Starting next week I will be utmost busy as a new project has just started. I really hope that this new project would be smooth sailing n I am able to cope with the new demand.

I am looking forward for my birthday treat next week. I intend to have a jolly good time there even if I am alone. Come what may, I want to enjoy myself on my own. Life is short. Live life to the fullest and don't forget to balance between dunia n akhirat.

Another year in counting

It is my birthday today. Another year older but wiser, I presumed. A very quiet day spending the whole morning at home lazing around watching movies. Actually I am still exhausted from the trip to Ho Chi Minh with some friends. A friend needed to buy some things for her daughter's upcoming wedding.

The trip to HCM was a good one even though I was tight on cash. Went to assist my friend to get her shopping done and I needed the break from home. Sarah came with me but the boys went to their father. Sarah had a great time walking with us shopping and she got herself some stuffs too.

I got myself the Vietnamese suit that I always wanted... A glaring red n black suit! When am I going to wear it doesn't matter. I will find an occasion to wear the red suit.

Happy birthday to me.... Alhamdulillah....

Unexpected events

I received a call from a new friend and we ended chatting at a coffee shop till midnite. What an unexpected surprise coz this new friend attended A's wedding last year and also a buddy of A's wife. Well.... A is actually her third husband! What a surprise! I suppose that this is he had always wanted and yearned. Perhaps this time, she is able to keep him grounded. Well having a lot of experiences, she may be able to succeed this time.

As for me, I am glad knowing that he ended up with his present wife and his dream wife is fulfilled. The best of luck to him and may they have happiness till the end.

Btw I managed to get tix for Justin Bieber's concert in April and more eventful is that I had tix for the Eagles concert in Singapore next Feb. Will have a great time at the concert. I better start listening to the songs to enable to sing along during the concert. What a great way to celebrate my birthday!

A Busy 2011 Start

The starting of 2011 was hectic! With two kindies to run and a new task at the organization. With the kids starting schooling, I was exhausted. The two kindies (new kids registrations and new kids adjusting) were a handful. I was running back and forth and by the second week, everything was almost normal. Had to train the new teachers and getting all the supplies in before the school starts.

I would like to thank all my good friends who helped chipped in for the new school. May Allah bless all of you.

My other classes also started on second week. Had new students and my timetable is full throughout the week.

For the next few weekends, I have programmes involving the ADUN and will be on my toes. I am enjoying the tasks given to me and insyaAllah I will be able to fulfil the requirements by the office.

Wish me luck, friends! I really need it!!

Goodbye 2010

A year had passed and overall it had been so-so for me. Many incidents happened in 2010 which were mixed between happiness and dreadfulness. Too many court cases that I had attended and more to come for 2011. All of the court cases were dreadful but I have to go through the legal system to fight for my rights. Even after more than two years being separated, the court has not decided on the harta sepencarian and I do not know how long will all end.

In the mean time, I had to continue struggling to support my family. Had to find means and ways to survive and to make my kids live comfortably. How tiring it may be but at the end of the day, the time that I spent with the kids is happiness. We may have less to spend but we have all the time to compensate and cherish with what we have.

InsyaAllah 2011 would be a better year for us and I pray that will end well in the near future.

Happy 2011 everyone!

To give or not to give....

I am in dilemma - to give or not to give away something dear to me. Due to some unforseen circumstances and some financial difficulty, I need to make up my mind without hurting or jeopardizing my relationship. This matter had been on my mind for almost a year and I cant seem to make up my mind. Its a difficult thing to do but eventually I have to decide. All I need to do is Redha and Tawakkal. Allah knows better....

Perhaps I should wait until my court date this mid Dec and I will decide then..... May everything ends well soon....

Gathering with Friends

The best way to spend Deepavali Hols was to meet friends gather2. We finally met at Shah Motel in PJ, all the 14 of us. No spouse n kids actually but I had to take Sarah along. We had a GREAT time talking about old times and a handful of us spent the nite at the hotel. We kept on chatting until 4 am....

The next day we proceeded to Pucuk Di Cita at Wangsa Maju for brunch. A few others joined in to replace some who could not make it for breakfast. But still... it was GAMAT!!!

To all my friends, thank you for being there.... Will love all of you always....